Wednesday, January 2, 2019

How to Keep Your New Year's Resolution

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Many of us make New Year’s resolutions. From losing weight to quitting smoking to finally getting organized, we frequently set goals for ourselves and are ready get started on January 1, but our enthusiasm and motivation frequently wane after only a few weeks.

So how can we make resolutions we’ll actually keep?

A New Year’s resolution is like any other goal, and the key to reaching a goal is to commit to what you want to do, then develop a realistic plan that’s easy to follow and suits your lifestyle. For instance, if your goal is to lose 20 pounds this year, but you regularly put in 12-hour workdays and snack on unhealthy food throughout the day, chances are you’ll have a tough time losing weight. The key is to work a weight-loss plan into your jam-packed schedule however you can.

One way to reach your goals is to follow the SMART criteria—Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Results-focused, and Time-bound. This helps to keep your progress high and stress level low.

Ready to get started? Below are a few additional tips to keep yourself on track with your New Year’s resolutions

Start small. If your goal is to lose weight, one of the worst things you can do (and one of the fastest ways to lose your momentum) is to aim higher than you can reasonably reach. For instance, if going from your couch to your fridge or pantry is the most exercise you’ve gotten in a year, you’re probably not ready for a 5K race this weekend. Start by walking around the block, then going a bit further or for a longer time the next time you head out.

Keep a record of your accomplishments. Track your progress. Keep a food journal so you can have a written record of everything you eat. Write down every cigarette you smoke so you have an accurate list of how many you smoke in a day, then taper off gradually.

Reward yourself. You should celebrate small victories along the way. Treat yourself to a massage or that new pair of shoes you’ve been eyeing when you lose those first ten pounds. For every day you go without a cigarette, splurge on yourself. Whatever your resolution is, reward yourself when you reach an important milestone.

Have a friend join you. Many of us find it easier to stay motivated if we’re accountable to someone. Are you determined to finish that novel you’ve been writing? Join a writing group or connect with a critique partner. Get a workout buddy or accountability partner with whom you check in regularly. It’s harder to slack off when you know someone else is counting on you to show up.

Continue to challenge yourself. As you reach the smaller goals, keep pushing yourself to go further. If you keep up your weight loss and exercise routine, set new goals. Sign up for a 5K or other competitive event. If you quit smoking for a few months, look at what other vices you could reduce or eliminate.

Reaching a difficult personal goal is an empowering and liberating achievement. Be proud of what you’ve done! What will you do next?